We eventually patched things up, and because he was my mentor, it wasn't hard for me to forget the past. So one evening, we talked about forgiving someone who had given me i love u so much pain, someone that I love very deeply, that I swore never to give that person a chance to re-enter my life. I actually started talking about how I hate this person, and how hurt I was. My mentor listened, and started to give me what I really needed. Here are the things he said that helped me heal my own wounds and made me capable of forgiving.